Move beyond surface compatibility toward shared values.
Compatibility is discovered in conversation, not assumed from a biodata. Before the nikah, courageous and honest questions protect both hearts from preventable pain.
On faith and practice
What does a spiritually healthy home look like to you? How were religious decisions made in your family growing up, and what would you keep or change?
On money
What does financial responsibility mean to you? What are your obligations to your parents and family, now and in the future?
On conflict
How did your family handle disagreement? What do you do when you are angry? Who would you turn to if we could not resolve something ourselves?
On roles and expectations
What did you observe in your parents' marriage that you want to repeat — and what do you want to do differently?